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Helping the Abuser

Stopping Abuse at the Source

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Mar 06, 2025
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Domestic violence is a global problem. ๐ŸŒ๐Ÿ’”

And it is essential, of course, that victims of abuse receive all the support they can get. ๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’™

But what about the abuser? โ“ Why are they like this, and what can be done to help them? And keep them from committing violence again? โŒ

In Britain, there is a program that provides guidance for domestic violence perpetrators.๐Ÿ“ž

Called the โ€œRespect Phoneline,โ€ it offers counseling and options for those who recognize their own abusive behavior and seek to stop it. ๐Ÿ›‘๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ

The confidential program receives over 6,000 calls, texts, and live-chats annually. ๐Ÿ“ฒ๐Ÿ’ฌ

Their motto is โ€œChoose to Stopโ€ โœ‹โ€” and the fact that a person has reached out at all indicates they want help. This is the first step to stopping the abuse. ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ’ก

Without invoking shame, their website, RespectPhoneline.org.uk, offers questions that guide individuals to find the help they need. ๐ŸŒ๐Ÿงญ

Batterer intervention is about learning new ways to deal with difficult emotions and changing well-worn patterns of aggressive behavior. ๐Ÿ”„๐Ÿ’ญ

We are all born innocent and gentle, but life and even our families can teach us to be violent. ๐Ÿ‘ถโžก๏ธ๐Ÿ˜”

Unlike any other crime, Love โค๏ธ is what makes domestic violence so complicated.

But itโ€™s also Love โค๏ธ that can compel healing and positive change. โœจ๐Ÿ’ž


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